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Help Me Live, Revised
20 Things People with Cancer Want You to Know
Taschenbuch von Lori Hope
Sprache: Englisch

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Almost all of us know someone with cancer.

And, of course, we want nothing more than to offer comfort and support, and foster hope. But we don't always know how-and may feel uncomfortable asking. Following her own treatment for cancer, Lori Hope created a survey for cancer survivors addressing issues they wanted their families, friends, and caregivers to understand. The results of the newly expanded survey are presented with honesty, insight, and humor, and complemented by scores of compelling personal stories from survivors of diverse ages and backgrounds.

If you are a caregiver, Help Me Live will help you communicate more effectively and respond more compassionately. And if you are a survivor, it will help you feel validated, empowered, and, ultimately, hopeful.
Almost all of us know someone with cancer.

And, of course, we want nothing more than to offer comfort and support, and foster hope. But we don't always know how-and may feel uncomfortable asking. Following her own treatment for cancer, Lori Hope created a survey for cancer survivors addressing issues they wanted their families, friends, and caregivers to understand. The results of the newly expanded survey are presented with honesty, insight, and humor, and complemented by scores of compelling personal stories from survivors of diverse ages and backgrounds.

If you are a caregiver, Help Me Live will help you communicate more effectively and respond more compassionately. And if you are a survivor, it will help you feel validated, empowered, and, ultimately, hopeful.
Über den Autor
Lori Hope
Inhaltsverzeichnis
Foreword by Rachel Naomi Remen, MD — xi

Preface to the Revised Edition — 1

Introduction — 7

Part I: 20 Things People with Cancer Want You to Know

1. “It’s okay to say or do the ‘wrong’ thing.” — 15

2. “I need to know you’re here for me, but if you can’t be, you can still show you care.” — 23

3. “I like to hear success stories, not horror stories.” — 30

4. “I am terrified and need to know you’ll forgive me if I snap at you or bite your head off.” — 37

5. “I need you to listen to me and let me cry.” — 44

6. “Asking my permission can spare me pain.” — 55

7. “I need to laugh—or just forget about cancer for a while!” — 63

8. “I need to feel hope, but telling me to think positively can make me feel worse.” — 72

9. “I want you to respect my judgment and treatment decisions.” — 87

10.“I want you to give me an opening to talk about cancer, and then take my lead.” — 97

11. “I want compassion, not pity.” — 101

12. “Advice may not be what I need, and it can hurt more than help. Try comforting me instead.” — 108

13. “I am still me; treat me kindly, not differently.” — 115

14. “If you really want to help me, be specific about your offer, or just help without asking.” — 121

15. “I love being held in your thoughts or prayers.” — 127

16. “Hearing platitudes or what’s good about cancer can minimize my feelings.” — 133

17. “I don’t know why I got cancer, and hearing your theory may add grave insult to injury.” — 139

18. “Don’t take it personally if I don’t return your call or want to see you.” — 144

19. “I need you to offer support to my caregiver, because that helps me, too.” — 151

20. “I don’t know if I’m cured, and bringing up my health can bring me down.” — 159

And one more thing . . .

21. “I am more grateful than I can say for your care, compassion, and support.” — 165

Part II: A Quick Guide to Cancerquette

22. The 2010/2011 Survey — 171

23. Different Kinds of Cancer — 190

24. Cancer through the Stages — 195

25. Cancer in Different Circumstances — 204

26. Cancer at Different Ages — 209

27. She Wants/He Wants: Cancer and Gender — 225

28. Cancer and Cultural Background — 234

29. Other Situations, Complications, and Conditions — 239

30. The Lists: Do’s, Don’ts, Tools, and Treasures — 244

31. How to Listen — 256

32. The Cheat Sheet — 258

33. For Survivors: Hoping and Coping in a World of Uncertainty — 260

Afterword — 263

Acknowledgments — 267

Index — 269
Details
Erscheinungsjahr: 2011
Genre: Importe
Produktart: Ratgeber
Rubrik: Gesundheit
Thema: Gesundheit
Medium: Taschenbuch
ISBN-13: 9781587611490
ISBN-10: 158761149X
Sprache: Englisch
Einband: Kartoniert / Broschiert
Autor: Hope, Lori
Hersteller: Clarkson Potter/Ten Speed
Verantwortliche Person für die EU: Libri GmbH, Europaallee 1, D-36244 Bad Hersfeld, gpsr@libri.de
Maße: 203 x 152 x 16 mm
Von/Mit: Lori Hope
Erscheinungsdatum: 13.09.2011
Gewicht: 0,376 kg
Artikel-ID: 107853915
Über den Autor
Lori Hope
Inhaltsverzeichnis
Foreword by Rachel Naomi Remen, MD — xi

Preface to the Revised Edition — 1

Introduction — 7

Part I: 20 Things People with Cancer Want You to Know

1. “It’s okay to say or do the ‘wrong’ thing.” — 15

2. “I need to know you’re here for me, but if you can’t be, you can still show you care.” — 23

3. “I like to hear success stories, not horror stories.” — 30

4. “I am terrified and need to know you’ll forgive me if I snap at you or bite your head off.” — 37

5. “I need you to listen to me and let me cry.” — 44

6. “Asking my permission can spare me pain.” — 55

7. “I need to laugh—or just forget about cancer for a while!” — 63

8. “I need to feel hope, but telling me to think positively can make me feel worse.” — 72

9. “I want you to respect my judgment and treatment decisions.” — 87

10.“I want you to give me an opening to talk about cancer, and then take my lead.” — 97

11. “I want compassion, not pity.” — 101

12. “Advice may not be what I need, and it can hurt more than help. Try comforting me instead.” — 108

13. “I am still me; treat me kindly, not differently.” — 115

14. “If you really want to help me, be specific about your offer, or just help without asking.” — 121

15. “I love being held in your thoughts or prayers.” — 127

16. “Hearing platitudes or what’s good about cancer can minimize my feelings.” — 133

17. “I don’t know why I got cancer, and hearing your theory may add grave insult to injury.” — 139

18. “Don’t take it personally if I don’t return your call or want to see you.” — 144

19. “I need you to offer support to my caregiver, because that helps me, too.” — 151

20. “I don’t know if I’m cured, and bringing up my health can bring me down.” — 159

And one more thing . . .

21. “I am more grateful than I can say for your care, compassion, and support.” — 165

Part II: A Quick Guide to Cancerquette

22. The 2010/2011 Survey — 171

23. Different Kinds of Cancer — 190

24. Cancer through the Stages — 195

25. Cancer in Different Circumstances — 204

26. Cancer at Different Ages — 209

27. She Wants/He Wants: Cancer and Gender — 225

28. Cancer and Cultural Background — 234

29. Other Situations, Complications, and Conditions — 239

30. The Lists: Do’s, Don’ts, Tools, and Treasures — 244

31. How to Listen — 256

32. The Cheat Sheet — 258

33. For Survivors: Hoping and Coping in a World of Uncertainty — 260

Afterword — 263

Acknowledgments — 267

Index — 269
Details
Erscheinungsjahr: 2011
Genre: Importe
Produktart: Ratgeber
Rubrik: Gesundheit
Thema: Gesundheit
Medium: Taschenbuch
ISBN-13: 9781587611490
ISBN-10: 158761149X
Sprache: Englisch
Einband: Kartoniert / Broschiert
Autor: Hope, Lori
Hersteller: Clarkson Potter/Ten Speed
Verantwortliche Person für die EU: Libri GmbH, Europaallee 1, D-36244 Bad Hersfeld, gpsr@libri.de
Maße: 203 x 152 x 16 mm
Von/Mit: Lori Hope
Erscheinungsdatum: 13.09.2011
Gewicht: 0,376 kg
Artikel-ID: 107853915
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