If the title and cover of this book resonate with you, you may be questioning your sexuality. Hooray! We celebrate your curiosity! You might be in a heterosexual marriage (possibly even your second) with a minivan full of kids and still be the perfect person to read this book. We understand that there may be an element of terror mixed with thrill in even choosing this book.

You are about to see yourself clearly...and it is about time. Welcome to your truth. Deep breaths, friend. No matter where you are in your "knowing", we welcome you to the LGBTQ+ community.

The authors in this book are a diverse group of womxn, all figuring out creative ways to design relationships while honoring their sexuality. Some authors have not yet "come out" publicly and are bravely sharing their stories in service to you. We wish there had been a book like this available to us on our journey. It is important to know that you are not alone.

We hope reading these stories will feel like looking into a mirror and finally seeing yourself. No, everything does not have to fall apart for you to claim your desires. In this book, you will read about options, possibilities, and a world of expansiveness. Being courageous and coming to a place of radical truth telling can be lifesaving for you and can help liberate those you love.

May this book come to you at exactly the right time.