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Beschreibung

You love your child. But sometimes you just don't understand what's going on with them. Young children can't yet put their feelings into words. Instead, they show what's going on through their behavior, often in ways that are completely incomprehensible to adults. You want to do everything right, but sometimes you just don't know what your child needs or what they're trying to tell you.

  • Your child has seemingly inexplicable tantrums-and nothing calms them down.
  • Your child doesn't listen to you-even though you ask nicely.
  • You don't know whether to comfort, set boundaries, or wait it out.
  • You feel like your child doesn't understand you-and vice versa.

Child psychology expert Claudia Schwarzlmüller presents a simple but profoundly helpful method for dealing with such situations-predicated on your knowing when to lead your child and when, instead, to follow their lead. Identifying these moments-and responding accordingly-is the key to a balanced parenting style that minimizes outbursts and helps your child's development from infancy through age six.

Does My Child Need Me to Lead or to Follow? tracks the development of a fictionalized child named Alex from infancy through age six, guiding you through dozens of situations that will help you to instantly recognize what your child needs at that moment-because you'll understand the underlying needs in their behavior.

You love your child. But sometimes you just don't understand what's going on with them. Young children can't yet put their feelings into words. Instead, they show what's going on through their behavior, often in ways that are completely incomprehensible to adults. You want to do everything right, but sometimes you just don't know what your child needs or what they're trying to tell you.

  • Your child has seemingly inexplicable tantrums-and nothing calms them down.
  • Your child doesn't listen to you-even though you ask nicely.
  • You don't know whether to comfort, set boundaries, or wait it out.
  • You feel like your child doesn't understand you-and vice versa.

Child psychology expert Claudia Schwarzlmüller presents a simple but profoundly helpful method for dealing with such situations-predicated on your knowing when to lead your child and when, instead, to follow their lead. Identifying these moments-and responding accordingly-is the key to a balanced parenting style that minimizes outbursts and helps your child's development from infancy through age six.

Does My Child Need Me to Lead or to Follow? tracks the development of a fictionalized child named Alex from infancy through age six, guiding you through dozens of situations that will help you to instantly recognize what your child needs at that moment-because you'll understand the underlying needs in their behavior.

Über den Autor
Claudia Schwarzlmüller is a child psychologist who has been working with parents for over twenty years. The original edition of this book is a #1 bestseller in Germany and is being published in several other territories.
Inhaltsverzeichnis

Introduction

  • Dear Reader, Meet Alex
  • The Structure of This Book

Leading and Following

  • Interaction = Parenting + Fun
  • Moments of Following: You Follow Your Child
  • Moments of Leading: You Lead Your Child
  • Work-Life Balance for Babies and Toddlers
  • Summary

PART 1 Your Baby

  • Development from 0-6 Months
    • Thinking and Play
    • Feelings and Relationships
    • Movement
    • Speech
    • Nursing
    • Sleep
    • At a Glance: 0-6 Months
  • Development from 6-12 Months
    • Thinking and Play
    • Feelings and Relationships
    • Movement
    • Speech
    • Sleep
    • At a Glance: 6-12 Months
    • What to Know in Year One
    • Moments of Leading in Babies
    • Moments of Following in Babies

    Bonus: Sleep in Babies and Toddlers

    PART 2 Your Toddler

    • Development from 12-18 Months
      • Thinking and Play
      • Feelings and Relationships
      • Movement
      • Speech
      • At a Glance: 12-18 Months
    • Development from 18-24 Months
      • Thinking and Play
      • Feelings and Relationships
      • Movement
      • Speech
      • At a Glance: 18-24 Months
      • What to Know About 1-Year-Olds
      • Moments of Leading in 1-Year-Olds
      • Moments of Following in 1-Year-Olds

      Bonus: Autonomy and Boundaries

      PART 3 From Toddler to Preschooler

      • Development at Age 2
        • Thinking and Play
        • Feelings and Relationships
        • Movement
        • Speech
        • At a Glance: 2-Year-Olds
      • Development at Age 3
        • Thinking and Play
        • Feelings and Relationships
        • Movement
        • Speech
        • At a Glance: 3-Year-Olds
        • What to Know About 2- and 3-Year-Olds
        • Moments of Leading in 2- and 3-Year-Olds
        • Moments of Following in 2- and 3-Year-Olds

        Bonus: Feelings and Tantrums

        PART 4 From Preschooler to Kindergartener to First Grader

        • Development at Age 4
          • Thinking and Play
          • Feelings and Relationships
          • Movement
          • Speech
          • At a Glance: 4-Year-Olds
        • Development at Ages 5 and 6
          • Thinking and Play
          • Feelings and Relationships
          • Competition
          • Movement
          • Speech
          • At a Glance: 5- and 6-Year-Olds
          • What to Know About 4- to 6-Year-Olds
          • Moments of Leading in 4- to 6-Year-Olds
          • Should I Punish My Child?
          • Moments of Following in 4- to 6-Year-Olds

          What to Look Forward To

          Acknowledgments

          References

          Further Reading

          Index

          About the Author

Details
Erscheinungsjahr: 2026
Fachbereich: Erziehungsratgeber
Genre: Erziehung & Bildung, Importe
Rubrik: Sozialwissenschaften
Medium: Taschenbuch
Inhalt: Einband - flex.(Paperback)
ISBN-13: 9798893031065
Sprache: Englisch
Einband: Kartoniert / Broschiert
Autor: Schwarzlmüller, Claudia
Übersetzung: Lauffer, Elisabeth
Hersteller: Experiment
Verantwortliche Person für die EU: Libri GmbH, Europaallee 1, D-36244 Bad Hersfeld, gpsr@libri.de
Maße: 227 x 152 x 18 mm
Von/Mit: Claudia Schwarzlmüller
Erscheinungsdatum: 14.04.2026
Gewicht: 0,368 kg
Artikel-ID: 135103255

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